Interview with Stefani Morgan

Tommy Lee can choose any woman. He chooses Stefani Morgan.
"Everyone asks me, ‘So, how’s the sex with Tommy?’” says Stefani Morgan, who was introduced to the legend after a Las Vegas awards show earlier this year. “I have no complaints.”

It’s not as if she’s lacking points of comparison. Since arriving in Los Angeles from her native Riverside, CA, two years ago, Stefani has counted among her conquests such tabloid regulars as Wilmer Valderrama, Jesse Metcalfe, JC Chasez and Rick Solomon. And she also ditched modeling in favor of a career as an adult-film star with Vivid.

“People are like, ‘You’re too pretty to do that,’” Stefani says. “I’m like, ‘I’m happy, so why does it matter?’ People know it’s not a last resort—it’s not like I wasn’t working beforehand—but they’re always trying to talk me out of it. Sex is in my blood. It’s a necessity in my life. I think about sex every second.”

So how exactly do you go from modeling, where you didn’t take off any of your clothes, to porn?
I’d been thinking about it for a year. I gave it a lot of thought, because it’s not something you can go back on. None of my girlfriends were surprised at all because I’ve always been very sexual. When I was younger, my girlfriends were like, “You’re going to be a sex therapist.”

What do guys think?
Well, one of my friends is dating a photographer, and before meeting me, he walked into the room and said, “OK, which one’s the porn star?” I was like, “Me,” and he goes, “No, really.” I said, “Really.” He started laughing and he was like, “Why would you do that to yourself? There’s no reason you can’t succeed in the regular world.” It’s annoying because I hear it all the time. I asked him, “Why do you take photos for a living?” I found something that I love, and I’m happy.

Is Tommy Lee the biggest celebrity gent you’ve been with?
I suppose so. He’s not the biggest guy I’ve been with, though. More guys than girls ask me about Tommy in the bedroom. The girls want to know, of course, but guys go on and on about it. I’ve had a lot of great sex with other people beforehand, too, and with Tommy it’s awesome. He’s also the most down-to-earth person I’ve ever met. I’m crazy about him.

How did Tommy land you?
[Girls Gone Wild creator] Joe Francis introduced us at a Vivid party in January. Tommy stood up to shake my hand, but Joe spun me around and lifted up my dress to show him my ass. Tommy cleared the bench and had me sit next to him.

What about getting together with Jesse Metcalfe of Desperate Housewives fame?
That was short-lived. I’d met a guy he was living with and we started hooking up. And then it was done. I guess we were both over it.

What do guys get wrong when it comes to dating porn stars?
They think they can handle it. At first, it’s fun for them. After that, it becomes, “Why do you do what you do?” That kind of insecurity is very unattractive. To me, it’s just sex. People want to control me, and that’s never going to happen.

What’s the difference between your sex life on camera and at home?
On set you’re not really into the guy. When I’m filming, the turn-on for me is people in the room watching. I noticed when I was younger that I liked sex in public—elevators, hallways in apartment buildings, gosh, just about anywhere I can pull it off.

Are guys intimidated by you?
Some are. I dated a guy last fall, and he had a problem with what I do. I was like, “My sex life off camera is so much better because there’s an actual connection.” He couldn’t understand. He felt like he was constantly in competition.

Who was this mystery man?
JC Chasez. We tried to date, but we’re just too different.

Wilmer Valderrama wouldn’t have that problem, right?
I wasn’t a porn star when I met Wilmer, but he loves that I’m a porn star now. I wouldn’t say we dated; we had a couple of flings. There’s something about him that’s sexy and mysterious. It lures you in.

Did you make a Paris Hilton–style sex tape when you were with Rick Solomon?
We did film ourselves together once. I think it was deleted. I hope it was; we’ll find out, I suppose. The Paris Hilton video was playing in the background. I needed some inspiration and I needed to look at a hot girl. I had actually never seen the Paris video, but Rick had a copy.

Have you ever been with a famous woman?
I don’t really like women. I’ll kiss girls here and there, but it’s always to turn a guy on. I kissed Paris on my birthday when we were hanging out. Rick called me afterward and was like, “You fucked her, didn’t you?” I said, “I don’t know. I don’t remember, but I’m pretty sure I didn’t.” She said we didn’t, so I’m going to say we didn’t. She is a good kisser, though.